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“…in the tradition of the best jazz autobiographies…a fascinating travelogue through the jazz world, filled with vivid images of Gene Krupa, Roy Eldridge and Billie Holiday…her prose is as hip as her music.”              

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“The record of [the] early years is like the story of the music itself: rich, exciting, innovative; featuring the primitive beauty of the twenties when one foot was still in showbiz; the thirties with hip sophistication and hard swinging for hard times; the explosive forties of pre-war big-band bashes and post-war bop; and then the fifties, going off in a hundred directions with a needle in the arm…. it is the best jazz autobiography I’ve ever read”.

 

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Excerpt from “High Times Hard Times, Chapter 1


Getting pregnant while she was single was something I don’t think my mother ever got over. That was really a heavy situation in 1919. Girls killed themselves, became prostitu­­­tes or got married and car­ried the guilt with them all their lives. Mom took the last route. 

            

Mom’s unmarried name was Gladys Gill and early pictures show an outdoorsy girl with devilish eyes and her own kind of prettiness. There she is, crouched in the crotch of a tree holding a rifle and the squirrel she’s just bagged. Or, on another occasion, she’s astride a horse, wearing a jockey suit at a time when most women didn’t wear pants. But by the time I became old enough to remember her, she was solemn, if not downright grim. 

            

Mom and Dad were both from Kansas City, Missouri. Mom had a half-sister, Aunt Belle, whom she was closer to than anyone else in the world. Aunt Belle stepped in and took care of her after their mother died, until Mom was old enough to go to work in the box factory. That’s where she met Dad, whose name was James Col­ton. 

 

Dad was an only child, a happy cat, a personality kid. He was tall, slim, with dimples and a delicate bone structure, all of which I inherited. He was also handsome, sandy-haired, and he drank a lot. He was a real ladies’ man and wound up having ten marriages and nine wives before he was fifty. 

            

He must have had a great line to get Mom to “go all the way,” as they said back then. Anyway, he did what nice guys did when Mom told him she was pregnant. He married her. Too bad he couldn’t have been a cad. Too bad for her. Too bad for him. And too bad for me. 

            

As soon as they were married, Mom and Dad moved to Chicago, where no one was going to be minding their business. Mom always told me that I was born at Michael Reese Hospital on December 18, 1919, but when I needed a birth certificate to get my passport for the European tour with Benny Goodman in 1959, I was stunned to learn I’d bowed into the world as Anita Belle Colton on October 18, 1919. That was about six-and-one-half months after they cut out from K.C. Finding out about my real birth date put a lot of things into focus for me that had bothered me all my life. 

            

I couldn’t explain it, but I’d always felt that in some way I was to blame for whatever was wrong. Eventually I could see that Dad had done the “right thing” in marrying Mom, but as soon as they moved into an apartment in the uptown district of Chicago, Dad abdicated. 

            

He got a job as a printer when they came to Chicago and worked for Cuneo, the biggest outfit in the city. He made good money, but, like a lot of other people, he’d drink up his check on the way home on payday. During my earliest years, I don’t have any mem­ories of him at all. Between the time I was a little over a year old and when I reached seven, he just wasn’t around. 

            

I can’t say the same about Mom. She looked after me, but there used to be a popular phrase, “excess baggage,” and that’s what she made me feel like. 

            

Not that she ever complained. Not Mom. She was a straitlaced, old-style martyr who pitied herself because she had to work and was left with a daughter to raise. I didn’t realize it at the time, of course, but she made me feel I was keeping her from living her life. She worked hard all day, took me to the babysitters, picked me up after work, cooked dinner and went to bed. 

            

I guess she was tired, but I couldn’t understand why she never cuddled and kissed me as I saw other mothers do with their chil­dren. 

From the time I was two years old, I was sent off to Kansas City to visit my grandparents on my father’s side each summer. They were church-going people and it was there that I began singing. I enjoyed Sunday school for that reason, but when I’d get adjusted to life with Grandpa and Grandma Colton, they’d take me back to Chicago or Mom would come down and get me. I don’t think I had any clear idea where I belonged and I suppose I interpreted those changes of locale as some kind of punishment. 

            

Mom liked music and after I returned from Kansas City and sang a little song, she seemed very pleased. I must have been starved for attention because after she started me in kindergarten at four and a half, I really enjoyed learning little songs. At five, I took the leading part in a Christmas play in which I sang and danced. It was one of the few times Mom showed any pride in me when I was a kid. I was so proud I almost popped my buttons. 

            

When I first started to grade school at Stewart, I did okay because we talked our lessons and I could remember whatever was said. But I began floundering when we got into identifying printed letters and numbers. I don’t know why nobody thought it strange that I couldn’t learn to read and that I printed so much larger than other kids. Me? I thought I was dumb. Mom? She just sighed and accepted it as another burden for her to bear. 

            

I guess teachers then didn’t give much thought to why a kid had trouble learning to read. I know that none of them ever sent a note suggesting that I have my eyes checked. So I tried to make myself invisible to escape getting called on and making some stupid mis­take in front of the whole class. In my mind, I wasn’t worth a whole lot and nobody went out of the way to make me feel good about myself. 

            

Then when I was seven a wonderful thing happened. My dad started showing up at the apartment again. He laughed and joked and won me over the same way he must have won the heart of any woman he went after. To be honest, Dad never looked after me and he contributed very little to my support, but even so he prob­ably gave me more love than Mom. 

            

I don’t think I was aware that he and Mom had divorced because of his drinking, gambling and chasing pretty girls, but after he began coming by more often, Mom began to bloom. After a few weeks of this, they had a long private talk. When it was over, they told me they were remarrying and we’d all be living together again. 

            

I guess the short period that followed was the happiest of my childhood, and it came about in a strange way. It seems Dad had been shooting craps and had cleaned this other cat out of cash. His opponent was one of those never-say-die types who put this seven-room West Side apartment against Dad’s money. Dad accepted the challenge and won. So you might say that Mom and Dad’s second marriage depended on the roll of the dice. 

            

I was at an age where Mom felt I needed a father and I did, because Dad really knew how to make a girl’s heart flutter. He got me a dog, Kayo, who was really something. You could send Kayo to the store with a note in the bag ordering anything, even ham­burger, and he’d bring it back untouched. For a while I don’t know whether I loved Dad or Kayo most. Certainly Mom wasn’t in the running. 

            

About a week after we moved into the apartment, a piano was delivered. Dad told me he’d bet on a horse named Anita, a long shot that paid off, and he’d used his winnings to buy a piano. Who knows whether it was the truth or just some of Dad’s blarney? True or not, it really made me feel good. That piano was intended to play a big part in our home life.

            

Mom felt that if Dad couldn’t or wouldn’t give up drinking, at least he could do it at home. With the big apartment and piano for music, they could have his friends in for parties. So Dad mixed a batch of home brew, which he put in the pantry. And it wasn’t long before the yeast began to work and caps were popping off the bottles in the middle of the night. 

            

In the beginning, the piano provided entertainment for every­body. Mom would sit down and play songs like “Moonlight and Roses.” She’d sing tenor, Dad would sing the third part pretty good and I’d put my fingers in my ears and learn the melody. I guess those sessions are the most satisfying memories I have of our family. Of course, I didn’t realize then that music was going to be such a large part of my existence. 

            

Once the home brew had worked, the parties started. Dad’s crowd turned out to be poker-playing hard drinkers. The get­-togethers Mom had encouraged turned out to be drunken brawls and even so they didn’t stop Dad from going out on payday and showing up at home on Sunday night or Monday morning empty­-handed.

            

But Mom was determined to play it home style so she’d try to be out at the Cuneo plant to catch Dad as he left on payday. I don’t think she caught him more than once or twice so even though he was earning a hundred bucks a week—not bad for the time money was always scarce at our house. 

            

Finally Mom gave up on reforming Dad. She went out and got a new position as comptometer operator at Armour’s packing plant and when Dad came home she had the door bolted from the inside. They had terrible fights, screaming at one another through the door, blaming each other, while I cowered in one of the back rooms, praying, as my grandmother had taught me to do, that they wouldn’t hurt one another. And my prayers were answered be­cause Dad would always eventually disappear. 

            

Mom found a one-room-and-kitchenette and gave up the seven-room apartment. We sold the piano and used the money to move and that was the last I saw of my father until I was grown and out on my own. I never let Mom know how much I missed him or the pain I felt that he didn’t care enough to come around and see me when she wasn’t there. Like a turtle, I developed a hard shell to protect myself. I might be vulnerable, but I learned how to hide my pain with a flip remark or a hard-boiled attitude. 

            

Dad might be gone, but that didn’t mean I didn’t hear a lot about him. Every time I did something that rubbed Mom wrong, she struck up the same refrain: “You’re just like your father! You’re no good! You’ll grow up just like him.” Have that dinned into you long enough and it’s bound to happen. I knew one thing for sure. I’d do anything not to be like her. 

            

Mom had no friends that she visited or who visited her. She never went anywhere except to the ball game on her day off, which hap­pened to be the day ladies were admitted free. She didn’t drink or smoke at a time when the whole world was smoking and drinking. When I look back, she seems to me exhausted, uptight, unable to express emotion and filled with self-pity. Given a choice, I wanted to be where the action was. If that made me like my father, okay. He was out there with interesting people. 

            

The irony is that even today it’s difficult for me to talk about my deepest feelings. Even when I’m hurt, I’ll make a joke or tell you off, but I’ll never cry. By repeating that I was just like Dad, I think Mom caused me to imitate him. I guess I felt it was hopeless for me to be good so I became incorrigible as I got older. But I wanted her approval too, and I worked for it. Maybe that’s why I ended up with the worst of both of them. No, no, that’s a joke, folks. 

            

Music was really our only bond. Mom kept the radio going con­stantly. A new song would appear and we’d have something to get excited about. Not that we agreed. She was crazy about “Beyond the Blue Horizon” and “Cryin’ for the Carolines” while I tried to get her interested in “Exactly Like You” and “On the Sunny Side of the Street,” which she thought were just a lot of noise. 

            

She tried not to miss Horace Heidt and His Musical Knights or Shep Fields and His Rippling Rhythm. But it ruined her day if she missed Wayne King’s broadcast, especially a new hit he had around 1932 called “The Waltz You Saved for Me.” She kept the radio on after I went to bed, so I used to go to sleep to the strains of the Lady Esther Serenade, as Wayne King’s pro­gram was called. That was certainly going-to-sleep music. Nytol! 

            

Seriously, I loved listening because the Wayne King Orchestra often played just down the street at the “beautiful Aragon Ball­room” which was located on Lawrence ,not too far from us. 

            

Those memories may not sound very intimate to you, but they were about as close as Mom and I got. I think that for a long time after she and Dad split up, her emotions were frozen. I don’t remember her ever kissing me or even smoothing my hair affec­tionately. I can understand all that now, but at the time I kept trying to figure out what I’d done that made me so unlovable. 

            

I suppose the Depression worried her, too—the possibility of losing her job—but it didn’t really change anything much for us. Where we were it was always Depression times. Mom gave me fifteen cents for lunch. During the worst times, maybe she cut that to a dime, but a dime went a long way back then. I didn’t suffer. I still wore the same kind of gingham wash dresses. We’d never had any money. So how could we lose what we’d never had? 

           

But when I was around twelve years old, all the kids began get­ting bicycles. One of my friends let me try hers and after a couple of failures, I found the secret of it. Nobody had to hold the bicycle or help me keep my balance, I was a natural. I rode along feeling the wind against my face and running through my hair and I thought this is really neat. I began picturing myself whizzing along the streets waving at my friends, dazzling them with my fancy circles, figure eights and the classic “Look, Ma, no hands.” 

            

I knew what Mom was going to say if I broached the subject to her. She’d tell me I had no more sense about the value of money than Dad, that she worked long and hard to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table, then she’d go on about how hard it was to keep me in dresses and shoes and the upshot would be that there just wasn’t enough bread for something silly like a bicycle. 

            

I knew she’d parade out all those clichés, but I couldn’t get that red bicycle with silver trim out of my mind. I really believed that if I could have one that was all I’d ever want in this world. So finally one night I blurted out my request. And Mom responded as if I’d written out the speech for her. 

            

I didn’t cry or beg. I just looked at her defiantly and said the thing I knew would bug her most: “Okay, I’ll ask Dad.” 

           

 “You just do that,” she told me. “See which comes first, his whiskey or you.” 

            

That night I couldn’t sleep thinking about the red and silver bicycle. I kept seeing myself whizzing along, like wow! causing people to turn in wonder at this vision of speed and grace. 

            

I had to have a bike so a couple of days later I stole one. It didn’t have any silver trim, but it was a boy’s red bicycle. I saw this kid ride up, get off and lean it against the wall outside the corner drug­store. I stood there staring at it, my insides feeling like jelly. I looked around. There was nobody in sight so I hopped on and pedaled away as fast as my legs would take me. 

            

I knew I had to paint it. It hurt me to do it, but I’d already learned that in this world you can’t have everything. If I went riding around on the bike with its original red paint job, the kid would spot it and recognize it. So I took it home and painted it black. I hated black; but it covers red better than any other color. When I’d finished, I looked at it and thought, Yeh! Now I got my own bike! and I put it away to dry.

            

Mom never even noticed or, if she did, she must have thought some friend was letting me borrow it. 

            

About the third or fourth day, I was really getting expert at wheeling it around. I went to the park and was riding around show­ing off a little, hoping some of my friends would see me and tell everyone what a great rider Colton was. Instead, the kid who owned the bike saw me. I wanted to zoom off, but I figured then he’d know what I’d done so I pretended not to notice him and hoped the black paint would fool him. 

            

No such luck. He came up and wanted to know where I’d got my bicycle. “Aw, I had it a long time.” “What if I told you it’s mine?” “You’re goofy. Your bike’s red.” “How’d you know that?! It is my bike! You-” I sped off, but he found out my name and where I lived from the other kids. That night he brought his father over to talk to Mom. They had the serial number to identify the bike and I found out right then you have to do more than slap a little black paint on something to get away with stealing it. 

            

It broke my heart to part with that bike and I was embarrassed at being caught, but what humiliated me most of all was to hear Mom apologizing and telling these strangers she didn’t know what she was going to do with me; I was becoming just like Dad. 

            

With Mom, punishment never fit the crime. It was always the same whether she caught me in a fib or stealing a bicycle. She knew that the high point of the day for Uptown kids came after our evening meal at 5:30 P·M· By 6:00, we’d gather and hang out around the corner. When it got dark, we’d go home. Big deal! But I had to be sick or out of the city to miss being there. After I stole the bike, Mom said, “No going to the corner to­night. “ 

            

“Aw-” 

            

“Not even off the front porch for a week. You understand? Once you’re home from school, you’re grounded. You’re going to learn right from wrong beginning here and now!” 

            

I felt as if I were in prison. Mom would barely speak to me. For a while I just sat. Then I remembered that summers when I was visiting Grandma and she took me to Sunday school, the teacher said we were to pray to Jesus for guidance when we were bad. I prayed for Him to show me the way and tacked on a request that He would find a way for Mom to get me a bicycle. 

            

I must have appeared very forlorn or, I thought, maybe Jesus had spoken to Mom about my prayers, because not long after, her heart softened. She took me to Sears and picked out a red-and-chrome girl’s bicycle. She paid twenty-five cents down and twenty-five cents a week. It was all she could afford. 

            

It was probably the biggest thrill I’d had up to then. I not only got the bicycle, I looked on it as proof Mom did love me even if she didn’t make a big thing about it. 

           

It wasn’t until later it occurred to me maybe Mom was just being practical. I’d almost finished at Stewart and it was going to be too far for me to walk to Senn Jr. High. Certainly the Sears’ weekly payment was less than a week’s bus fare· Was that why she’d bought me the bike? 

            

I was never going to impress anybody with my grades, but I shone in gym and music, especially during the Friday afternoon homeroom programs. These were impromptu, volunteer happen­ings. There were tap and acrobatic dancers, a dramatic reader, a few singers (a boy with a high tenor voice was very popular), chalk talks—anything any of us could do or dream up. I’d usually volun­teer near the end. My specialty was novelty songs with audience participation. One I remember was “All the King’s Horses·” It went: 

            

The King’s horses and the King’s men, 

            

They march down the street 

            

And they march back again. 

            

Up front, I’d have my classmates primed to ask, “Who?” And I’d sing: 

            

The King’s horses and the King’s men. 

           

I’d heard that number on the South Side one night when George Beiber and I competed in one of the Lindy Hop contests they were holding around the city. George was a big, fat, twenty-five-year-old who was really light on his feet. He had perfect coordination, a great sense of rhythm and such acrobatic skill he could make it look as if I were flipping him over my head. Mom trusted him because when he promised to have me home by midnight he always did.

            

People ask me when I first smoked grass. Well, I smoked it before it became illegal in 1933, although it really wasn’t legal for me to smoke anything then. But before going in to our dance, George and I would share what we called a reefer. It was no big deal when I was twelve or thirteen. If you lived in the Uptown district, you could buy a joint at the corner store, if not nearer. I never read the newspapers so I didn’t know when pot was out­lawed and beer became legal. One night I asked George for a hit on a joint and I thought he was going to flip out. “Do you want to get us arrested?” he hissed. Then he told me what had come down. It didn’t make sense. One day weed had been harmless, booze out­lawed; the next, alcohol was in and weed led to “Jiving death.” They didn’t fool me. I kept on using it, but I was just a little more cautious. 

            

George and I usually won in our category. In fact, we became sort of unofficial Lindy Hop champions around Chicago at the time. First prize in most contests was ten bucks. I’d let George keep seven since he was so much older, and I’d take three home to Mom. George couldn’t understand that. I’m not sure I did myself. I told him I pitied her and didn’t want to be a burden. But maybe giving her that money was my childish attempt to prove she was wrong. I wasn’t like my father who hardly ever gave us a penny. I was a giving person like she was. 

            

George wasn’t my boyfriend. We were both natural dancers and made an eye-catching team. I did get interested in a boy named Steve about this time. He was the type I almost always went for in later years: curly blond hair, blue eyes with a devilish glint, and a good physique. He was my first big crush. Years later when I was appearing in Las Vegas, he came by to see me. He owned a little circus. Time seemed not to have touched him. After he left, I won­dered what my life would have been if I’d stayed in school, we’d kept going together and maybe married. Well, we’ll never know, will we? 

           

 With the arrival of spring I was already feeling restless when my advisor called me for a conference. He pointed out my grade aver­age had dropped so that Commercial Geography was the only sub­ject I could hope to pass. I promised to apply myself more, but all the way home I kept thinking how hard Mom worked and what a disappointment my report card would eventually be to her. I de­cided to give her a break by forgetting about school and visiting my grandparents. It wasn’t exactly running away. I was just mov­ing up the date for my regular summer visit and saving Mom bus or train fare. 

            

The next morning, after she left for work, I threw a few things into a handkerchief—I think I’d seen too many B movies—and went to the intersection near our house where I asked some sharp-­looking dude the way to Kansas City. He told me which city bus to take to reach the edge of town and which highway led to K.C. I thought, “Well, now there you are! How hard can it be?” What I didn’t realize was that the trip was around five hundred miles and would take four nights and five days. 

            

One thing to remember: This was Depression time. Some people felt lucky to be living in piano crates. Another homeless child more or less wasn’t anything for anyone to get excited about. There were lots of them roaming around the country. People were too busy keeping a roof over their heads to bother a mature-look­ing twelve-year-old who seemed to know what she was doing. 

 

Lots of truck drivers stopped to give me a lift. Most of them were kindly family men; some of them were scum. One thing I got hip to very quickly was not to get in with any driver whose rig sported a “No Riders” sign. That guy invariably had other ideas about the kind of ride I needed. The worst of these picked me up on my second night out. I was tired and chilly and the warmth of the heater quickly made me drowsy. I was half asleep when I real­ized the truck must have stopped. You know, like I didn’t feel the vibrations anymore. But I did feel the guy was beginning to mess with me, whispering, “Wake up, honey.” 

“Are we in Kansas City?” I mumbled. 

“No, baby. On the side of the road. Just you ‘n’ me.” 

Him and me! I felt my slacks being unbuttoned. Suddenly I was wide awake. All I knew about sex then was what I’d heard from the kids on the corner. Mom and I would have been embarrassed to talk about anything so intimate. But instinct took over. I let him have a knee where it would hurt most, wrenched open the door, jumped out and ran toward a bright area down the highway. The lights came from a roadside cafe. Nothing fancy, a place where truckers stopped. 

           

I sidled in and got up nerve enough to approach the counterman. 

“Can I sit here until dawn?” 

“How old?”

“Sixteen,” I said, thrusting my front to show how I was 

starting to bloom up there. 

“What’re ya doin’ here?” 

“I hitched a ride with a trucker. He’s very nasty and I don’t want to be where he can get me.” Upset as I was, I didn’t feel like crying, but I managed to squeeze out a tear or two for effect. The counterman must have realized I was really only thirteen or fourteen, and I guess he pitied another loser because he took the trouble of lining up a ride with a nice family man who also hap­pened to be a trucker. This man drove me into the downtown area of Kansas City and helped me look up Grandpa’s address in the telephone book. When I finally got to the house, there was no one home. I sat on the steps until the lady next door recognized me and wanted to know what I was doing there. 

           

“Waiting for Grandma.” 

“Annie’s at church on the corner,” she said. 

            

I might have known. We always spent a lot of time at that church during my visits. What I learned there supplied me with some much-needed strength to see me through the rough hours of my addiction later. 

            

I’d enjoyed my first night’s sleep at Grandma’s when Uncle Vance showed up looking for me. Uncle Vance was a traveling salesman for a pots-and-pans organization, but he was a pretty straight cat. He explained that Mom had been frantic when she called him. Why she hadn’t called Grandma I have no idea, but hearing that she really was concerned about my welfare made me glow inside. 

            

Maybe I wasn’t just excess baggage after all. 

            

After Uncle Vance pressed a bag of goodies into my hands and put me on the train headed for Chicago, I spent most of the trip dreaming of all the things Mom and I would say to one another when I got back. If they sounded suspiciously like soap opera, maybe that was because those radio dramas and an occasional movie were the only places I ever heard people talk about love and loneliness and the need for one another. Nobody at our house expressed feelings. Anyway, the emotional bath that I imagined would take place when Mom and I saw one another again would have made Mother Monahan, that sentimental old busybody on “Painted Dreams,” seem like a cynic. 

            

As the train pulled into the station, my heart was pounding and I could hardly wait for the doors to slide open. I rushed out of the railroad coach and ran along the platform, ready to hurl myself into Mom’s arms. As I took the steps two at a time, I could see Mom standing there by the train gate, just as Uncle Vance had said she’d be. My stomach knotted as I looked at her. She wasn’t smiling; she didn’t even look as if she was glad to see me. I started taking the steps one at a time. I guess I’d always really been hip to the fact that she’d never tell me any of the kind of stuff I’d imagined on the trip. But any sign she felt something toward me would have been welcome, from a kiss on the cheek to a slap. 

            

Of course, that wasn’t Mom’s way. I can still remember her exact words as I climbed the steps: “Hurry up, Anita. For heaven’s sake, dinner’s going to be late enough as it is.” 

 

Excerpt from High Times Hard Times

by Anita O’Day

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